{"id":496,"date":"2015-05-31T11:55:38","date_gmt":"2015-05-31T11:55:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/?p=496"},"modified":"2026-06-24T05:46:41","modified_gmt":"2026-06-24T05:46:41","slug":"medievalwitch-sometimes-i-wish-i-didnt-put-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/?p=496","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/medievalwitch.tumblr.com\/post\/120342985699\" class=\"tumblr_blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">medievalwitch<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Sometimes i wish i didnt put my real name on here.<\/p>\n<p>I mean for the most part i dont give a shit, but every so often i get messages from men (usually way older than me,but really all ages) who will be like \u201c hello Amanda, how are you doing today beautiful\u201d and other things like that.. Sometimes they just say hello Amanda.. But idk, it kind of makes me uncomfortable, if that makes sense.<\/p>\n<p>Idk, like you know in silence of the lambs when hannibal lecter says \u201chello clarice\u201d\u2026 I feel like its being said to me like that. All creepy like. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This was gonna be a reply, then I exceeded the character limit, so an open discussion it is  <\/p>\n<p>In certain mediums, a real name just isn&rsquo;t worth disclosing. I actually rather enjoy the anonymity that Tumblr provided by not allowing me to disclose my real name (which is why my blog name is a genderless pseudonym and will remain as such), whereas my identity on Facebook *is* known, but only if you know where to actually look for me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>medievalwitch: Sometimes i wish i didnt put my real name on here. I mean for the most part i dont give a shit, but every so often i get messages from men (usually way older than me,but really all ages) who will be like \u201c hello Amanda, how are you doing today beautiful\u201d and other [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-496","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/496","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=496"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/496\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2316,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/496\/revisions\/2316"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=496"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=496"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=496"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}