{"id":191,"date":"2016-01-20T07:38:31","date_gmt":"2016-01-20T07:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/?p=191"},"modified":"2026-06-24T05:45:54","modified_gmt":"2026-06-24T05:45:54","slug":"in-order-to-stop-the-culture-of-faking-orgasms-we","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/?p=191","title":{"rendered":"In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/silkbox.tumblr.com\/post\/133175092800\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">silkbox<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li>Can\u2019t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.<\/li>\n<li>Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don\u2019t let it get to your head.<\/li>\n<li>Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it\u2019s a process that takes an hour? That\u2019s alright, everyone\u2019s different.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That\u2019s okay, you\u2019re not broken, you\u2019re not a failure.<\/li>\n<li>Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That\u2019s great, you\u2019re not a slut, you\u2019re not overly sensitive or dirty.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Can\u2019t cum without toys\/vibrators? That\u2019s awesome, that\u2019s a valid part of sexual play!<\/li>\n<li>Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That\u2019s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!<\/li>\n<li>Can\u2019t orgasm at all? THAT\u2019S ALSO COOL. It\u2019s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they\u2019re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>silkbox: Can\u2019t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good. Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don\u2019t let it get to your head. Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it\u2019s a process [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=191"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2289,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/191\/revisions\/2289"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.grunk.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}